Bro you're wasting time

Hey man,

Let’s be real for a moment

I’ve approached thousands of girls and yet I feel nervous when I see a beautiful girl if I’m not in a momentum already

It doesn’t mean that I won’t approach her

or maybe it will, and I end up not doing it.

Either way, if I miss out on an opportunity and go home and feel bad about it

maybe distract myself with porn, scrolling the phone or whatever

then I’m not moving towards finding my beautiful woman.

Still, this is what you’ve been doing for years.

Trying, going halfway in and then you beat yourself up because it was not good enough.

Of course it was not good enough, you gave 10% of what you have.

But it doesn’t mean that you need to self-attack about it.

Actually, the opposite is true.

If I don’t approach, I can choose to meet the regret, guilt and shame with acceptance.

Breath in, let myself know that it’s okay and stay present with the uncomfortable feelings.

Then, as soon as I feel a little better (not perfect, just a little lighter), I dust myself off and go out again.

Same thing happens? Well, that’s another moment to practice self-love.

Eventually I’ll approach and then maybe she gives me her phone number, but doesn’t go out with me.

Same thing.

Dust myself off and go out again.

Then she’ll go out with me, and we’ll have a great time.

Or not.

Dust my self off.

Out again.

You see where I’m going?

Towards my beautiful woman.

So where will I end up?

With my beautiful woman.

However, while I’m on that journey (I’ve met a few beautiful women over the years),

you believe that you don’t deserve her or that you cannot do it.

That some guys have it, while you don’t.

But as you see, I’m no different than you.

I’ve just got experience.

Meaning I’ve been where you are, and that’s the reason I do what I do.

because it sucks feeling lonely, unworthy and not able to meet and date a beautiful woman.

What do you think you should do?

You DUST yourself off and continue.

Let’s fucking go.

Stay empowered,

Edin