Are you pushing without getting results?

Hey and good evening man!

I just came back from the store to buy cheese, and at the counter I noticed a pack of condoms.

I’m not out of condoms yet, but earlier today I was thinking that I wanted to buy a new pack because I often feel a bit embarrassed when I get it

you know, what will the people around me think?

So this time as well, I thought of it and then thought “I’m too scared”

there are two guys behind me and then there is this woman at the counter.

yes, I still have these thoughts sometimes

but…

I’ve learned to become more aware and take the action that comes from my highest excitement.

So now I got back home, with cheese and a pack of condoms.

When you have a goal, for example to express your desire to a girl in an open and authentic way

because you would like to have sex with a girl that you are very attracted to.

Then there is a hard way and a smart way of going about it.

You could for example approach a lot of girls and never ask them out or try to make a move…

In this way you would still push, go outside your comfort zone and face some fears around social pressure, but never get closer to your goal.

Not very effective.

I mean, I could have done pushups in the store and also faced a fear of social pressure…but why?

It’s pushing hard, not smart.

Instead

You could go into every interaction with the goal of expressing your desire and intention of sleeping with her.

Now, you are pushing smart because you are going in the right direction.

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Create yourself a great evening,

Edin