Approaching 20 attractive girls in 1 week⁣

Hey man,

it’s Monday, and this morning I felt happy because I enjoy what I’m doing.

Anyways, let’s get straight into todays topic.

Setting a goal and not reaching it feels frustrating and you do not have to feel guilty about it⁣

Once you do what you’re about to read then hesitation and overthinking will be a thing of the past⁣

Imagine you set off to approach 20 attractive girls in 1 week⁣

But because of hesitation and overthinking,⁣

you only managed to talk with six and one of them was very cute, but you didn’t ask for her number⁣

⁣Still, pretty good, but not ideal⁣

You’ve done so much shadow work already,⁣

that not discovering your authentic confidence would be a crime⁣

I’ve been through hesitation and overthinking so..many…times ⁣

that I can confidently tell you the reason it happens⁣

It’s because you’re too outcome-dependent, and because of that, you’re trying to control the situation. ⁣

You want to be loved for who you are and you see getting a girlfriend as a way to experience unconditional love. ⁣⁣

Who can blame you?⁣

⁣When you were a kid and expressed yourself to your family, your mother rejected you.⁣

⁣So you learned to hold back and hide⁣

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Your excitement⁣

Your love⁣

and desires⁣

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That’s why we’re sitting here. ⁣⁣

To get you what you want…⁣

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- 𝘞𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘱, 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵. ⁣

- 𝘎𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘢𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘨𝘪𝘳𝘭⁣⁣

- 𝘈𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘩 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘶𝘯𝘤𝘩 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. ⁣

- 𝘈𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘰 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦𝘥, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧, 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘦𝘹𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥.⁣

…you need to let go of this control. ⁣

The practice down below will help you do exactly that. ⁣⁣

I’ll let you know about what the practice is, but first, I want you to know how powerful it is⁣

After learning this in a coaching session, a student of mine went out and approached seven girls⁣

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In one day⁣

And he was able to be authentic and enjoy the interactions. ⁣

Now, here’s what you do:

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1. Sit up straight or lie down.⁣

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2. With your eyes open or closed, observe your breath.⁣

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3. Now, let go of controlling the breath.⁣

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You might have noticed that it’s not easy.⁣

Your mind goes crazy.⁣

Body starts moving⁣⁣

And you start to control the breath by either holding it or breathing in.⁣

Sounds familiar?⁣

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It’s like seeing that girl on the metro and holding back your desire instead of letting go of control and approaching her.⁣

Even if you don’t feel good enough.⁣

Especially then.⁣

Because man, ⁣

when you approach her with that type of vulnerability you’ll discover something so deep⁣

that she cannot not become attracted to you.⁣

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I’m not saying every girl will fall for you like some dating coaches are promising nowadays with certain techniques.⁣

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Anyway, you wouldn’t want that, ⁣

because imagine you wake up next to a girl who doesn’t love you anymore because she only liked you when you wore a mask.⁣

No, that’s not what will happen here.⁣

You will attract the one that will love you for you.⁣⁣

The one that brings you up when you feel down.⁣

The one that sees you, understands you, and believes you are desirable.⁣

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The moment you discover your Authentic Confidence, life starts to flow⁣

because you start to trust your higher self. ⁣

And that’s when you can rest.

All you,

Edin