Approach one girl and have s3x this weekend

Hey brother

happy Friday 13th.

I know, it’s a bold statement so let me explain by telling you how I made a video while approaching a girl this week.

Wednesday

I’m planning to go out to approach a pretty girl and then record a video together with her right after, to show my viewers how easy it is.

If you follow me on Instagram, you might have seen it.

I’ve done it 3 times this last month, so I knew I could do it.

The problem - I’m attached to the outcome.

As I leave my house, I’m feeling fear because I’m afraid it won’t go the way I want and then you will see the video and think bad of me.

I ignore the fear and leave the house.

Walking down the street I greet some random guys, getting myself in the social flow. Then I see a girl and from behind, she looks great. I go up, but as I say hello and she turns her face - I see something that stops me.

She is pretty, but she has a mole on her face and in my mind I think “Ah, what if some guys don’t think that she is pretty and I will look like a failure”.

I tell her that I wanted to ask her something, but changed my mind.

I continue walking.

For the next few minutes I keep thinking about how I just could’ve spoke with her and end up messing up my energy to a point where I sense that approaching a girl now would be forcing it and it wouldn’t be from a place of positivity.

I go home, journal and get the insight that will change how you look at approaching.

Today,

I decide to go out and record a video where I would do The Social Warmup. If you’re not familiar with that is, then don’t worry, I’ll share the video with you once it’s up on Youtube.

Long story short: It ends with me approaching a girl I find attractive.

Before going out, I again feel this fear because here I am going out with my camera to approach people and at least one girl.

I could fail…

But…

I could also succeed and this turning into my best video so far.

Here’s where you need to pay attention:

I acknowledge the fear and tell myself it’s ok to feel this.

Then I reframe it into excitement. It’s actually the same energy, just a different vibration.

So right now, there is no fear, just excitement. And I feel embrace it.

Does it mean I’m confident?

No, but it means that I’m accepting myself and therefore allowing authenticity.

As I go out, I speak with a couple of people and when I see this blonde girl I find attractive, I don’t stop because she is not perfect.

No, I’m going up and very authentically approaching her (once again, you’ll see on the video).

How could I do it without hesitation?

Because I accept myself for not being perfect, therefore accept the moment and then also the girl.

The result… you’ll see when the video is out.

Point is - by not trying to be perfect myself, I didn’t look for the perfect girl nor the perfect moment.

I approached the girl that my excitement told me to, and I succeeded.

How many approaches?

1

Was it easy?

Yes

It doesn’t mean I didn’t put any effort, but it felt natural and I didn’t have to force it.

If you’re interested in being able to approach girls without forcing it and feeling safe within yourself,

so that she also enjoys the interaction and therefore going on 1 date a week with a beautiful girl, then the Christmas Offer is still open for you.

I’ll see you tomorrow,

Edin