3 reasons why

Hey man,

48 hours ago The Worthy Man launched

During this launch I went to an event in Romania and there was this girl. 

She was cute, good energy and I kept thinking about her. 

During one of the breaks, I go out and really want to meet her. There are about 500 participants, so there is no guarantee I’ll see her during these next 15 minutes. 

The thing is, I don’t want to see her, I feel like I need to see her. There is a hole inside of me, and only she can fill it up. 

I ask myself what to do, and instead of going around looking for her I tell myself to sit down.

I sit down, and at first nothing happens. There is this feeling of discomfort and sitting down feels difficult. I breathe through it and then… another woman I’ve talked with comes by.

She asks if I’m alright, and I know I’m not okay because of the girl, but I feel ashamed about saying it. I tell her “Okay, how can I tell you what is up without being honest?” We start laughing.

Eventually, I tell her about the girl. Whoh, easier than I feared. To my surprise, she smiles and says «Yeah, love is tough». We hug and then I tell myself to get up and go to the right. 

I stand up, take a few steps and there is the girl. She’s in a circle of people talking with one of the trainers so I go up and ask him a question (I really wanted to know about the numerology he was teaching) and he not only answers, but gives me an insight into how I need to stop overthinking. I feel so grateful and he also gives me a hug. 

Then, I tap the girl on the shoulder and I tell her I wanna say something. We sit down together and I share about how I feel attracted to her and how it triggered some old wound in me. I let her know this is an opportunity for growth, and if she’s in we can explore it. She says yes and invites me to continue talking after the event is over. 

See, what I’m doing is not pickup. I was not thinking what to say, how to say it and tried to look confident. Instead, I did the Inside-Out Approach, met some allies and expressed my truth. That’s exactly what we do inside The Worthy Man. 

1. We fix the real problem: Lack of inner safety.
   
   While most men think they need the right thing to say, it’s actually just a symptom of not feeling safe within. That’s what causes him to feel needy,  overthink, freeze and lose all of his masculine presence.
   
   When you feel safe within, your neediness goes away and your natural masculine attraction shows up.
   

2. We grow confidence the right way
   
   Most men try to «push through the fear». It can work, but could also overwhelm the nervous system and create more shame.
   
   What we do is progressive exposure.
   - Micro approaches
   - Tiny victories
   - Aligned action
   
   So your comfort zone expands gradually as your nervous system adapts to the change.
   
   Now you trust yourself, while your confidence increases and approaching feels natural.
   
   That’s why my clients grow week after week, instead of burning out.
   

3. You’ll grow inside a brotherhood, not alone.
   
   The problem of doing this alone is that you feel ashamed of your desire. The quickest way to overcome shame is to open up about it, and that’s why you’ll be surrounded by other men on the same journey.
   
   This creates
   - Momentum
   - Emotional support
   - Healthy competition
   - «If he can do it, I can do it» energy
   
   Which helps you take action even when you’re scared, overcome setbacks and stay consistent with your process. 

I’d love for you to join us.

By the way, I made a mistake yesterday - the price is still at €99.
Here is the link

Stay empowered,

Edin